Well, it depends on the way you look at things. It's such a knee-jerk reaction to just whine about the religious organisations. A simple solution to the "toxicity" you are complaining of would surely be for more non-religious people/organisations to just get off their butts and help.

My personal feeling is that anyone who wants to persuade a woman not to have an abortion should be prepared to walk alongside her every step of the way and provide practical assistance and emotional support to empower her to exercise her alternatives. Respect to all those who do this, whatever their beliefs.