Ooh, just back from hols and now see your dad died. So very sorry.
On the baby thing - yeah, what she said. Weirdly I still identify more with the childfree by choice brigade than not. And feel Very Very Strongly about the crapness of the "only this will fulfill you" idea. Wow. So no. I mean, turns out I love being a mommy (much to my own surprise), but I'm not sure "fulfilment" is the word. Also, cannot for the life of me understand why sprogging is supposed to be the unselfish choice. People is weird. And sexist. And weird.
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On the baby thing - yeah, what she said. Weirdly I still identify more with the childfree by choice brigade than not. And feel Very Very Strongly about the crapness of the "only this will fulfill you" idea. Wow. So no. I mean, turns out I love being a mommy (much to my own surprise), but I'm not sure "fulfilment" is the word. Also, cannot for the life of me understand why sprogging is supposed to be the unselfish choice. People is weird. And sexist. And weird.
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