Non-uterus bearer here. I have always thought that whether or not a woman wants to grow a person inside her should be her own business.
And that's really the only stance have heard that I respect. Especially when it is coming from non-uterus bearers. I have never personally experienced the societal pressure to procreate, but I know of these things about which you write. I think the only analog in the male perspective is the pressure to marry. Which I did. Unwillingly. It was bad. I would definitely hate for someone to coerce me into growing a human in my body.
Just thought I'd throw in my 2 cents. *pling pling*