If her attitude were that simple, there wouldn't be an issue and I wouldn't have posted. She's not trying to justify her desire to have a baby, she's trying to work out if her tangled and not very imperative leaning towards have a baby is about her own desire, or a sense of cultural obligation. I completely agree, there's absolutely nothing wrong with the simple desire to have a baby, as I've said several times above. If only it were that simple.