Sure, but I'm saying it doesn't matter. Societal wossnames encourage you to want a baby, so you have a baby that you want. I suppose you're suggesting that perhaps societal wossnames encourage you to think you want a baby then you have a baby that you don't want. If you have a baby that you really do want, I say it doesn't matter what role society, culture, etcetera play in it. Back into my hole now.