I'm sorry to hear this :(.

I tend to default to "trusting" and then the paranoid South African kicks in and I think "what if they're a crazy robber?" and then the guilt because they probably aren't and now it's too late. Most especially with the people on the side of the road asking for help with car problems. I always think "what if that were me? I'd want someone to stop" but one cannot be too careful nowadays. I'm sad that we have to think like that :(