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the immortal bard
Date: Thursday, 29 July 2010 03:08 pm (UTC)you do it to yourself, you do
and that's why it really hurts...
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OK, so it probably doesn't help; given the nature of guilt I don't expect it to. Having had my fair share of employer/employee relationships on both sides of the fence and with varying degrees of interest and engagement on the part of the employee my distilled experience suggests: your employer is not responsible for your happiness or motivation to do a job. As an adult your are responsible for your own stuff in this area.
And while I respect that JacksonSon has probably had limited opportunity given his history and circumstances, I don't think it is your responsibility to continue to subsidise his lack of motivation.
In fact, by continuing to pay him to be a bad gardener, you are probably making it more difficult for him to find the job he can hope to get given his resources. (Wait, didn't mean to add more guilt)
My experience suggests that it is usually best for all concerned that you part ways. Him to hopefully find the kind of job he really wants to do, and you to find the gardener of your dreams.